Arguing for no reason

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Please note that I used the word "argument" instead of "quarrel". Because it's not that serious yet. We are all working on many habits. I get angry easily, and so does Xiaohua.
I won't write about the specifics. They are all small things, small things that I don't think it's necessary to mention.
The main thing is how we can avoid unnecessary arguments over such small things in the future. I am a man, and I think I need to change my attitude. The problem is me. I didn't control myself in such a small matter. It's not that I didn't control myself, but I'm used to that way of speaking. In fact, my words may not really hurt you, or blame you for something wrong. I just didn't pay attention to the tone, intonation, and words I used.
Actually, Xiaohua also has some bad points. She is always silent. Maybe if my tone is just a little bit wrong, she will think that I am very, very angry, and then she will be silent.
Actually, I'm fine. I didn't go out to play because I was afraid that Xiaohua would be angry. She was sleeping. I couldn't concentrate on the movie. I wasn't in the mood to watch it. Let's say sorry in the couple's space.
Xiaohuahua, why don't you get up? Your husband wants to go out for a walk. I love you. Loving you is my original intention.